I need to take hold of what’s mine or else history will repeat
These words are not a part of blank poetry. I made them up when I was thinking deeply yesterday in a leisurely way. These lines definitely have a meaning. To some extent I have grasped while to some you’ve to get. Let’s fragment the sentence into two clauses:-
|Whatever you’re however you’re hardly matters but you’re you and no peer pressure is supported in the room of your mind.
I Need To Take Hold Of What’s Mine
Bullying has taken extent in the minds of different people especially school going children and college students. The idea against this stuck my mind when I read the news of a victim ten year old school boy’s video going viral on youtube. But the question rises that what is bullying, who is a bully?
In my words bully is not just a person’s habit of teasing someone. Bullying is a habit of someone to take advantage of someone’s innocence. Bullying doesn’t necessarily mean teasing in front, it can take place even when the victim is not present in the picture. In the current era if a child says that he is not bullied it’s hard to believe. To be honest, sometimes even a child sometimes is unaware of the fact that he is being bullied.
The meaning through which we see bullies or the practice of bullying is not adequate; as the definition of the term needs to be extended to all walks of life.
Bullying along with violence has also different forms like backbiting, spreading rumors etc.
I have several personal experiences of the scene. Last year, we had a group project to make a model on desalination. The presentation was after a month after we made it altogether. But before presentation we felt that it required taping. I delivered it to a crafts’ shop for the purpose. It costed me Rs.250. In a group of nine members, it accounted to Rs. 28 per head, but out of them only three members gave me the sum. I occasionally gave reminders but they didn’t pay. I finally dropped the very idea out of disgust. My idea of mentioning the fact is not to create a libel and slander situation that’s why I’m not mentioning the names but at least I knew their intentions that they couldn’t pay that petty sum.
I have a friend in school who suffered a similar fate. Earlier when he used to ask for money I considered him a miser, but after I started taking it in a positive way, horizons changed. I understood that what he was doing was anyway a right step. What is ours is ours whether it is received or accrued. He was careful about his money.
I openly challenge those misers that if they have even a speck of shame or self respect left in their minds they must pay the price.
Hence I want to tell you that it’s not at all right to let go. Take hold of what’s yours and afterwards your life. Noone is its true owner as you’re.
Or Else History Will Repeat
There are plenty of people who were mistreated in past. But they don’t reveal it, why? The fat is that revealing it makes them look feel weak according to them. But you must tell me, is it right? Carrying the magma in your conscience is not appropriate. If you didn’t teach them a lesson they’ll repeat until like a hammer you beat those nails.
Bully generally want the victim to be misguided. On 22nd of november, I went to a debate, in which a candidate from another school was busy in distracting people in order to win. This he was not doing forcefully but by treating with being friendly.
When I was in eighth standard, I found my flair in speaking. Several students started spreading rumors that I spoke as if someone was singing lullabies. I didn’t pay attention and achieved third position in a debate.
.In almost every classroom there is any student who considers himself the boss, he dominates the ideas of different students. Even the parents of different children want their wards to befriend with them. But the reality is that befriending with them is bad for an individual personality. You need to have a leader like personality, crawling by grabbing the hand of another person of your own age will do nothing but drag you along the wrong way.
What I want to tell you is that you need to seek inner reflection. Whatever you’re however you’re hardly matters but you’re you and no peer pressure is supported in the room of your mind.
Several people will meet you on the way of life, try to demotivate you but if you’ll stay strong no one can harm you.
You must learn from each of your experiences and do not let the history repeat.
|You need to have a leader like personality, crawling by grabbing the hand of another person of your own age will do nothing but drag you along the wrong way.
The time has come to take a austere action. Just tighten your fist and scratching the old wounds of being bullied comment if you’ve any idea of bullying. You can also follow me on twitter and instagram which themselves are a witness of the journey of an introvert.